Difference between Men and Women:
Men shower their bodies; women shower their emotions.
I love to take a long, very warm (some might say hot) shower. It relaxes me, and I find the hot and steamy environment great for meditation on whatever my chief concern may happen to be. My daughter, while still a young woman in high school, regularly used to take little early morning naps curled up on the shower stall floor, water running of course, both to keep her warm and as a buffer for her day.
Men come in and their nearly cold shower is finished before one really notices it began. The only reason a man showers is to wash off the day’s dirt and, as some do, to soften the beard for a shave.
Two entirely different approaches.